This video series on how Japanese kids are taught compassion sparked a thought. A good friend of mine and mentor, George, often discusses with me his vision of what schools should be like. He tells me that they should go beyond the formal institutions that they are now and teach necessary life skills. In some ways, community colleges seem to address this more than many prestigious universities. They’re practical and down to earth.
George was a dropout who lived off the streets for almost a decade before picking himself up and becoming a successful entrepreneur. I myself took the opposite route – I went to university, finished a challenging engineering degree, and did the grind until I realized it was not for me. I also realized almost all the heavy theory I learned in school had no practical application in the workplace. Many of my colleagues told me the same. For the people skills that I really needed, I had to go out and learn them on my own – through traveling, taking Toastmasters, social dynamics, etc.
So when George and I converge and talk about school, we come from two different backgrounds but see eye to eye. George tells me he ultimately hopes to contribute to society by building his vision of a school – one that teaches social skills, life skills, coping with failure, taking risks, etc. I truly hope it happens. If it does, then I hope the lessons in compassion taught to Japanese grade-schoolers in that video are included as a mandatory course.




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water
09.03.09 at 1:00 pm
Feel the same about current educational systems. J. Krisnamurti has written some good stuff on the topic. Merits checking out.
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carmen wong
12.22.09 at 4:33 pm
I will enroll my girl in that school!
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Louise
01.10.10 at 8:20 am
Thank you for sharing this! It is sad that we have to turn to our schools to help raise our children. The job of developing character and the ability to listen and empathize should be taught by the parents who teach by EXAMPLE. Remember, children do as you do, not as you say! Excellent video!
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Avo
01.24.10 at 6:51 am
There is SO MUCH to teach people about raising a person. Same goes to educational system. People who teach kids should commit themselves to personal development and they should put it into their teachings. Where are classes about taking risks, taking initiative, thinking outside the box, meditating, stoping the mind, dealing with stress, changing perspective etc.
I almost feel, that I dont want to put my children to school.
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ki'une
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January 24th, 2010 at 11:09 am
Absolutely, Avo. I give my son “pick up lines” to make new friends in the playground and demonstrate that “Hey, we’re playing a game. Want to join?” works really well. As for meditating, rather than introduce too hefty a topic for him, I just encourage him to “practice patience”.
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Luke
02.22.10 at 4:29 pm
Hey, just to say thanks Ki-une, I was on one of my random click frenzies through the internet and came across your page and clicked on the documentary. I’ve never been moved so much by something on youtube, the internet, or even any documentary. I’m an English teacher in Spain and I’ve been sharing this through my academy and through the vast online teacher network. It’s definitely had an affect. Also, great job with the sunscreen song video tribute, makes me beam a big smile when I watch it. Nice moves too! ;P
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